{"id":21650,"date":"2011-06-10T11:00:31","date_gmt":"2011-06-10T18:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/uprisingradio.org\/home\/?p=21650"},"modified":"2011-06-20T08:41:43","modified_gmt":"2011-06-20T15:41:43","slug":"whimsy-lightens-emotional-load-of-familys-painful-history-rebirth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/uprisingradio.org\/home\/2011\/06\/10\/whimsy-lightens-emotional-load-of-familys-painful-history-rebirth\/","title":{"rendered":"ReThink Reviews: Whimsy Lightens Emotional Load of Family&#8217;s Painful History, Rebirth"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><ul class=\"inline-playlist playlist\" title=\"\"><li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.archive.org\/download\/DailyDigest-061011\/2011_06_10_kim.mp3\">Listen to this segment <\/a><\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"inline-playlist playlist\" title=\"\"><li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.archive.org\/download\/DailyDigest-061011\/2011_06_10_uprising.mp3\">Listen to the entire program<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/p>\n<p><a href =\"http:\/\/www.rethinkreviews.net\"><img decoding=\"async\" align=right width=55% src=\"\/home\/graphics\/rethink_reviews_small.jpg\" alt=\"Rethink Reviews\" \/><\/a><strong>Taking a deeper look at current and past films and how they relate to the world today. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Jonathan Kim is an independent film critic who writes and produces film reviews for Uprising and other outlets. He is a former co-producer at Brave New Films. <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Read his reviews online at <a href=\"http:\/\/ReThinkReviews.net\">ReThinkReviews.net<\/a>. Watch his videos at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/user\/jsjkim\">www.youtube.com\/user\/jsjkim<\/a>, and follow him on Twitter at <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/ReThinkReviews\">twitter.com\/ReThinkReviews<\/a>. ReThink Reviews&#8217; theme song is by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.myspace.com\/restaurantmusic\">Restavrant<\/a>. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Beginners<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For most of us, our parents\u2019 marriage is the template for future relationships that we spend much of our lives affirming, opposing, or recovering from. But there\u2019s usually much more going on inside a relationship than meets the outsider\u2019s eye, which is the case in writer\/director Mike Mills\u2019 largely autobiographical film &#8220;Beginners&#8221;, where Oliver, played by Ewan McGregor, learns a few months after his mother\u2019s death that his 75-year-old father, Hal, played by Christopher Plummer, is gay and always has been.<\/p>\n<p>Not only does this cause Oliver to re-examine his memories of his imaginative yet neglected mother, played by Mary Page Keller, but it allows him to re-meet his previously distant father, who has embraced his identity as a gay man, falling in love with a handsome younger boyfriend, becoming active in gay social and political groups, and displaying an emotional availability that Oliver never thought existed. <\/p>\n<p>But soon after beginning his new life, Hal is diagnosed with terminal cancer. And following Hal\u2019s death, Oliver, who\u2019s still in mourning, meets and slowly falls for a visiting French actress named Anna, played by M\u00e9lanie Laurent, forcing Oliver to decide if he\u2019ll once again follow his parents\u2019 pattern of emotional distance or follow his dad\u2019s new, passionate, in-the-moment example. Oh yeah \u2014 Oliver also adopts his dad\u2019s dog, Arthur, whose thoughts you can read onscreen.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Beginners&#8221; intercuts Oliver\u2019s childhood memories of his mother with the period before and after Hal\u2019s death, along with facts and archival photos about each time period. While all this might sound like a lot, &#8220;Beginners&#8221; comes together beautifully, mixing honesty, emotion, intimacy, humor, and the sometimes unreliable power of memory through its interwoven timelines and the pitch-perfect performances of its three main characters \u2014 four if you count Cosmo, the adorable Jack Russell terrier who plays Arthur. <\/p>\n<p>Plummer is particularly good in a role that could\u2019ve easily devolved into caricature, capturing the giddy excitement of a man finally allowed to be himself after more than 70 years. As  &#8220;Beginners&#8221; points out, it wasn\u2019t so long ago that homosexuality was considered a mental illness and a criminal offense, where there was no such thing as \u201cgay pride\u201d and being out of the closet simply wasn\u2019t an option. <\/p>\n<p>McGregor\u2019s understated, bemused performance as Oliver is perfect for a man who, at 38, is both meeting his father and understanding his parents for the first time. And Laurent, whose role as Anna veers perilously close to being one of those quirky hot female saviors who rescue lonely sensitive guys in indie movies, adds enough darkness to make her more than a fantasy.<\/p>\n<p>When I was a kid, I was certain that my dad and I would never be close. But as I got older and we could talk more, I learned more about his life growing up in Korea, which not only improved my understanding of who he is, but also the work he does, which has, in turn, taught me a lot about myself. It\u2019s made me so grateful that I had the chance to get to know him, especially since so many people have at least one of their parents cut from their lives, either through divorce, death, or transgressions that seemingly can\u2019t be forgiven. But one of my favorite things about &#8220;Beginners&#8221; is its message that it\u2019s never too late to start again, whether it\u2019s your relationship with your parents or your past.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Beginners&#8221; is rated R and is in select theaters now.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Taking a deeper look at current and past films and how they relate to the world today. Jonathan Kim is an independent film critic who writes and produces film reviews for Uprising and other outlets. He is a former co-producer at Brave New Films. Read his reviews online at ReThinkReviews.net. 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